The First Quadrant/GET RIGHT (Q1)
The Pursuit Of Proper Personal Alignment
“I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything. – 1 Corinthians 6:12
- In a man’s pursuit of change in his life, is there anything that must occur first?
- Who does the unfit man serve?
- Does service to others require a man to abandon service to himself?
A man must Get Right before he can do anything else
To understand the Get Right, picture a man vigorously rowing a boat across a fast moving stream. If it suddenly capsizes so that the keel is skyward, the man would have to right it—return it to its upright position—before he could continue rowing. Until he did that he could not make headway against the current and get his boat to the far bank. At best, he would be simply trying to survive, clinging to his capsized boat as it was pushed by the current to points unknown downstream.
Now apply this image to the life of a man. If he has become (or always was) un-Right, he cannot make headway in any aspect of his life. The fast moving current of his surrounding circumstances will sweep him yon while he clings desperately to the hull of his overturned boat. Worse, his Concentrica—the passengers that he is charged to bring safely to the far bank— will be right there in the water with him, helpless because their husband, father and boss can do little more than focus on his own survival. Before he can help them, or himself, he has to Right his boat.
An unfit man is a slave to his lack of self-control
Fitness is a man’s Right relationship with himself, Fellowship is his Right relationship with the people with whom he is in Proximity and Faith is his Right relationship with his creator, the SkyQ.
The order of the Get Right (1-Fitness, 2-Fellowship and 3-Faith) is prescriptive, not random. Although it might seem philosophically that Faith should come first and that Fellowship should precede Fitness, that just does not turn out to be true as a practical matter.
Why? Because men who have no self-control over what they eat or drink and the daily use to which they put their bodies become captive to their lack of physical fitness. Ultimately, that defines them, primarily in their own minds but also in the eyes of those around them.
Likewise, because Fellowship is about forging a healthy relationship with other people, it requires the HIM to put the needs of others before himself. This is not the state of nature into which a man is born. A baby cannot even conceive of anything outside of himself, a boy puts himself first in all things and a teen is self-absorbed. Only in maturity does a man develop the discipline and desire to consistently promote the cause of his loved ones over his own and seek Preparedness. That is Right, the normal and upright position into which he is designed to grow. But he can’t do it if beset by gluttony and sloth. Those are jealous and all-consuming idols that will stunt his growth and keep him un-Right.
Finally, Faith requires a willing obedience to that which created us, which means that we place nothing before the SkyQ. For the un-Fit man this is simply not possible. His lack of control over what he eats, drinks and does renders him captive to other forces. As with Fellowship, gluttony and sloth provide no space for anything else. They are all consuming.
To be able to help others, a man must first help himself
Picture yourself on an airplane taxiing out to the runway. Doesn’t the flight attendant always instruct the passengers that in the event of sudden cabin depressurization oxygen masks will drop down from the ceiling. She then says something counterintuitive. If you are traveling with small children, put your mask on before trying to assist them. Selflessness would seem to require the inverse, that you would not help yourself before you helped them. Perhaps, but in a rapidly depressurizing cabin you won’t have the time. The issue is not whether you should help them first, but that you can’t help them at all unless you help yourself first.
The same is true in the life of man. A man must be breathing pure oxygen before he can help his fellow passengers. He must accelerate his Fitness, Fellowship and Faith before he can hope to have IMPACT or lead. He has to Get Right first before he does anything else.
Get Right is the first quadrant of Preparedness because an un-Fit man is unprepared to help anyone else.
- A man must Get Right before he can do anything else
- An unfit man is a slave to his lack of self-control
- To be able to help others, a man must first help himself
Get Right – The pursuit of proper personal alignment
Concentrica – The circular rings formed by a man’s most Proximate relationships.
Fitness – A man’s Right relationship with himself
Fellowship – A man’s right relationship with those in Proximity
Proximity – Nearness in geography or relationship
Faith – a man’s Right relationship with his creator, the SkyQ
SkyQ – a man’s view of the force that created and directs him
HIM – short for High Impact Man – a disrupter who is committed to making forcible contact to strong effect
Preparedness – getting ready for the expected while being ready for the unexpected
Right – the normal and upright position
IMPACT – forcible contact to strong effect
QPoints in The First Quadrant
- Q1.1/DRP: The Daily Commitment To Accelerate Fitness, Fellowship And Faith
- Q1.2/King: The Daily Discipline Of Physically Training The Body
- Q1.3/Queen: The Daily Discipline Over What Is Put Into The Body
- Q1.4/Jester: The Temptation Of The Flesh That Hinders Acceleration
- Q1.5/M: The Transformative Relationship Between A Man And His Wife
- Q1.6/Shorties: The Sacrificial Relationship Between A Man And His Children
- Q1.7/ShieldLock: The Horizontal Relationship Between Men
- Q1.8/Whetstone: The Vertical Relationship Between Men
- Q1.9/Mammon: The Sustaining Relationship Between A Man And His Work
- Q1.10/Prayer: The Daily Discipline of Talking With The Creator To Build Faith
- Q1.11/Study: The Daily Exploration Into The Foundations Of Faith
- Q1.12/Meeting: The Public Manifestation Of Faith